It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him (Genesis 2:18). After hearing the constant refrain “it was good” throughout the Creation narrative, we are jolted by this declaration. In the mist of all the “good” that God is creating, there is something not yet good enough! “It is not good that man should be alone.” Here we must tread carefully and yet boldly. We see in this that God’s normal prescription for humans is that they not be alone, that they be married.
I want you to understand that the head of every man is Christ, the head of a wife is her husband, and the head of Christ is God (1 Corinthians 11:3). As Paul opens a discussion on what is now a controversial topic — that of the wife’s submission to her husband — he grounds the whole discussion of submission in the unchanging, transcultural implications of Christian truth. Paul points us to the fact that submission is part of the very fabric of existence. Every man has his own authority to whom he must submit. “The head of every man
The man gave names to all livestock and to the birds of the heavens and to every beast of the field. But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him. So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man (Genesis 2:20-22) What a precious scene! Do not let your possible familiarity with it rob
At a recent men’s prayer breakfast at our church, I shared the following devotion. I share a brief outline from it with you in hopes that all husbands everywhere might be stirred up to, or renewed in, their determination to love their wives with Christ-reflecting purity and power. Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her